The Hardest Trip They Didn't Have To Take
- Jason Longshore

- Jun 8
- 6 min read
Emma Hayes is deliberately making the USWNT uncomfortable. Eight months after winning Olympic gold, that choice says everything about where this program is headed.

There is a version of this Brazil trip that never happens. The USWNT wins gold in Paris in 2024, comes home, and plays a comfortable set of friendlies in familiar stadiums against opponents chosen for their manageable challenge. The players stay in four-star hotels in cities where they know where everything is. The crowd is on their side.
Emma Hayes chose a different version.
The reigning Olympic champions are in Brazil, playing in front of crowds that treat every match like a festival and every opposing player like an enemy combatant. The first game drew around 30,000 in São Paulo. The second, scheduled for Monday night in Fortaleza, is expected to bring over 40,000. Hayes heard it might be 50,000. She did not seem concerned. She seemed energized.
"Being in Brazil is a choice," she said Sunday morning, ahead of the match. "And I'm grateful that we've got the opportunity to do it again, but in a bigger setting."
That word, choice, is worth stressing. Because everything about this trip is intentional, and the intention is not simply to win two friendlies.
What Hayes Actually Came Here to Find
The USWNT is not a program in rebuild mode. That needs to be said clearly before anything else. This is not a team coming off poor results. This is a gold-medal winning team with genuine depth, a manager who has been preparing for the 2027 World Cup since before the opening ceremony in Paris, and a player pool that spans veteran leaders like Emily Sonnett and Rose Lavelle alongside a younger generation of players still pushing for first-team minutes.
But Hayes is looking at the calendar and doing math that the rest of us have not quite caught up to. In a four-year cycle, she said Monday, USWNT players get the equivalent of one full year less soccer than their counterparts at most other top national teams. NWSL sides average around four midweek games per season in competition like the CONCACAF Champions Cup and league play. Mexican clubs average eleven. That gap does not show up on a medal stand. It shows up when a team needs to perform under sustained physical and psychological pressure against opponents who have been living in those conditions their entire careers.
"Everything that comes with that," Hayes said, gesturing at the broader picture of where American players spend their time and what they are exposed to, "and what I'd say is the relationship between NWSL and US Soccer is in a really, really good place."
She is working on it. Technical working groups, conversations with clubs, and the deliberate decision to bring teams overseas, to Spain, to France, to Brazil, so they see what a hostile crowd feels like before they see it in a World Cup knockout round. It is a systematic push, and this week in Brazil is part of the same project.
You Cannot Replicate This
Hayes took her Chelsea team to tough environments like Lyon and PSG. She has stood in the Camp Nou during a full Clásico. She called this unlike anything else.
"The Brazilians taught us how to play it," she told the room Sunday. "No. The Brazilians are teaching us how to live it and breathe it and drink it."
She talked about driving through Brazilian cities and seeing constant soccer fields, nothing glamorous, nothing plush, just community and games and people barbecuing on the touchline. She talked about visiting Corinthians and learning that the local Derby is not a match day but a festival day, everything before, during, and after. She said she is going to learn Portuguese in the next twelve months, because she does not want to rely on a translator anymore.
This is the head coach of the United States Women's National Team telling you she is still being educated by this sport.
Jaedyn Shaw reinforced it from the player's side, drawing on her experience with Brazilian teammates at Gotham FC.
"They live, breathe, die football," she said. "Understanding my teammates, they love it. Not only on the field but the culture off the field."
And what Hayes made clear, without dwelling on it, is that the USWNT has historically been protected from this. Not by accident, but by circumstance. They play mostly at home, mostly in favorable conditions, mostly in front of crowds that are theirs. The coaching staff has always prepared for noise. But as Hayes put it, comparing it to practicing a penalty shootout: you can run the drill all you want. You cannot replicate what it feels like when the opponent's fans are behind your goal.
"I think the only difference in this trip," she said, "was the crowd was real this time."
Accept It, Then Work
If you spent time with Hayes's answers on Sunday morning, one word kept coming back. Accept.
Accept the crowd. Accept the way Brazil plays, the grappling, the one-versus-one physicality, the fouls off the ball, the culture of contact that she said can feel almost legal within the flow of the game. Accept that officiating might not go your way. Accept that VAR might not either. Accept the late kickoff time. Accept that perfect conditions are a luxury you will not always have.
"Get over it," she said, about the schedule. "Get on with it."
This is not a new coaching philosophy, but it is a particularly pointed one when applied to a team that just won an Olympic gold medal. The trap for any champion is the belief that what worked before will be sufficient for what comes next. Brazil is not just a friendly opponent. Hayes named the broader category: many nations from all over the world will play this way at the 2027 Women's World Cup. Physical, intense, playing in environments with crowds leaning in as a twelfth player. The USWNT needs to know what it feels like to operate in those conditions before it has to know with a tournament on the line.
The veterans on this roster help. Hayes talked about senior players being empowered to read moments in the game, to transfer information on the pitch, to manage the emotional chaos that comes with playing in a stadium where your goalkeeper gets heckled during the warm-up.
"When I say our team has got so much better at the emotional control elements," she said, "like, it's not easy. You got people wrestling you to the ground in the middle of the game."
Sonnett, asked about the experience of being on the senior end of a roster that now includes a genuine next generation of players, did not reach for the expected answer. She pushed back, gently, on the idea that she is in mentor mode and not much else. "I'm still young," she said, smiling. "Still thriving." She said she is too intentional about her own game to think about things in terms of satisfaction or legacy. She is present, focused on one day at a time, and still adapting.
Shaw, on cue, said that intentionality is exactly what the younger players can learn from Sonnett. "That's what's kept her in this environment for so long."
It is a small exchange, but it captures something real about what Hayes has built. This is not a veteran team tolerating younger players. It is not a young team waiting for the veterans to clear out. It is a squad where both ends of the experience spectrum are still pushing, still learning, and still being tested by the game.
The Real Stakes
Tuesday night in Fortaleza, the crowd will be louder than anything the USWNT faced Saturday. The conditions will not be perfect. The officiating might not favor them. The heat, the noise, the physicality of a Brazilian team playing in front of its home supporters at full volume, all of it will be exactly what Hayes flew this team ten hours to experience.
The result matters. Of course it does. Hayes is competitive and she said so directly. But she also said, without apology, that this team cannot be solely outcome driven right now. There are things to learn here that a scoreline will not fully capture.
The USWNT has won multiple gold medals and World Cups in its history. It has another World Cup on the horizon next summer, a tournament that will see the USWNT trying to redeem themselves after a Round of 16 exit in 2023. The women's game is growing fast on every continent, and Emma Hayes is a coach who is genuinely unsettled by the idea of her players being caught unprepared. That combination of achievement and urgency is what makes this trip worth paying attention to.
They chose to come here. They chose the crowd and the heat and the grappling and the noise. And they are going to choose it again, in even bigger settings, until it stops feeling like a test and starts feeling like Tuesday.
That is the program Hayes is building.
Coverage from Fortaleza continues after Tuesday's match. Follow the SDH Network and Atlanta Soccer Tonight for post-game reaction and analysis.



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